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Seriously…my ex with the drug problem is re-married

Posted on: January 5, 2009

Just found this out a little bit ago (on Facebook) of all places. My ex (who I lived with/worked for) has gotten married. Hmmm – how do I feel about this? In a word: WEIRD.

Did I ever want him back? HELL NO – he was an awful partner – (did I mention the drug problem that was unknown to me, but everyone else knew about) – I guess what really bothers me is that he always made me feel like something was wrong with me, that I was not a good person, that I was lucky to have him (and not vice versa) – he always had to be center of attention (and if you know me, that is where i want to be -giggle).  He made me “shrink” as a person for 3 1/2 years and for that I will always be angry (but more at myself for settling).

Just stirs up a lot of feelings of inadequacies. I know I am 100 x’s better off now than when we were together – like Mika said when the two of us split “I feel like I am getting my KIM back”.  OK – this actually felt better to type this out – kind of like free therapy (sorry Alyssa)…

All I have to say is that the new “Mrs. Cokehead” needs to keep her assets in her name and watch for flying wine bottles….Seriously

5 Responses to "Seriously…my ex with the drug problem is re-married"

Only someone with the same interest would marry into that. Maybe we should take bets on how long it will last.

Girl, crack is whack and so is he. The man for you will embrace your light not try to snuff it out…God help the new one, she’s gonna need it.

Heck yeah she is going to need help. Thank God you got out. And girl, a schmuck like that should not make someone as wonderful as you feel inadequate. People who tear others down in order to make themselves feel better are just trying to hide their own character defects.

As I recall he wasn’t a very nice person, I saw the way he treated his own mother!
Remember the phase “I CAN DO BAD ALL BY MYSELF”.
Don’t settle for less than you are worth.

Girl, pray for her…people like him never change! I had an issue with a $2.00 jack ass like that. Best thing for the both of us was walking away.

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